Mariing pinabulaanan ni Xian Lim ang tungkol sa steak rumor na naging usap-usapan ng netizens kaugnay sa hiwalayan nila ng ex-girlfriend na si Kim Chiu.
Lumikha ng ingay ang steak issue dahil, diumano, nagpaluto pa si Xian ng steak kay Kim, kumain, tsaka ito nagsabing itigil na nila ang kanilang labindalawang taong relasyon.
December 23, 2023, inihayag ni Kim, kasunod ni Xian, na naghiwalay na sila.
Sa panayam ni Marinel Cruz ng Philippine Daily Inquirer na lumabas kahapon, May 19, 2024, napag-usapan ang 15 years sa showbiz ni Xian bilang aktor, direktor, at writer.
Pati na ang kanyang mga pinagdaanan hanggang sa kanyang kasalukuyang estado.
Hindi rin naiwasang halungkatin ang naging hiwalayan nila ni Kim.
Paano siya nag-cope sa pagtatapos ng 12-year relationship nila ng ABS-CBN actress?
Ayon kay Xian, ang kanyang ina na si Mary Anne ang naging katuwang niya upang maghilom ang sakit na nararamdaman.
Saad niya: “My mom. She advised me to stay away from the news, from all social media platforms, because things were getting too out of hand.
“She also advised me to not mind all the fake news and the things people are saying about me, that deep inside, we know the truth and that’s all that matters.
“She also said that if people like to believe all these, then there’s nothing I can do about it.
“She’s my support, my pillar, the wall I lean on, even until now. I’m lucky that she’s a strong woman.
“Other people might have broken down because of what’s happening. She’s been getting harmful, below-the-belt messages, even threats. For some reason, people got hold of her number.”
Dagdag pa ni Xian, nadadamay na ang kanyang pamilya dahil sa isyu.
Aniya: “I just want to explain this well and give it some context so people will understand.
“Our fans, I don’t even call them fans because they eventually became our friends, they became family, have my mom’s number.
“For the past 12 years, we were OK. She was always just a text away from our followers. All of a sudden, this happened, Kim and I broke up.
“I just don’t understand why these people we know are now going out of their way to say hurtful words to my mother. What for?
“We gave a reason for the split, that’s it. Just take that. ‘Di na kailangan himayin.
“We were very sad, of course. These were people we trusted. We considered them family. My mom had to change her number.
“We don’t even talk about it in the house anymore. She just tells me, ‘As long as we know the truth, we don’t have to play this game with them.’”
XIAN LIM ON STEAK RUMOR
Kasunod nito, sinagot ni Xian ang tungkol sa steak rumor na lumabas noon sa vlog ni Ogie Diaz.
Ayon sa kuwento ni Ogie, nagpaluto si Xian kay Kim ng steak. Excited pa raw si Kim na ipagluto ang dating boyfriend.
Matapos daw kumain ni Xian, doon na nito sinabing maghiwalay na sila.
Sa panayam ng Inquirer, mariing pinabulaanan ni Xian na may ganung eksena.
Saad ni Xian, “There’s no truth to it. It’s absurd. I don’t see where it’s coming from.
“Is it because people are using us for entertainment? I cannot orchestrate that.”
Diin pa niya, “I wasn’t the one who initiated the breakup.
“All these fake news, all these dagdag-bawas, are just too much already.”
DID XIAN LIM CALL KIM CHIU AFTER THEIR BREAKUP?
May naglabasan din kaugnay ng pagkatuklas ng netizens sa bagong karelasyon ni Xian sa film producer na si Iris Lee. Tinawagan umano ni Xian si Kim upang sabihing maaari nang ianunsiyo ni Kim na may bagong girlfriend na si Xian.
Nilinaw ni Xian na totoong tinawagan niya si Kim tungkol sa kanilang breakup, ngunit iba umano ang konteksto nito kumpara sa lumabas na balita.
Paliwanag ni Xian: “When this story first came to me, I didn’t understand it, to be honest. There’s also no truth to it. But I’ll say this, the truth is that I really did call Kim.
“When we parted ways, there were various stories coming out. Some parties are purposely becoming noisy. This was also the time when my family started getting messages that were below the belt.
“If I may give an example for the sake of context, there was an instance when they said, ‘Sana mamatay na ang lola mo.’ They even brought up her cancer.
“This was from a supporter whom we know and eventually became like family. It had already gotten way out of hand during the two weeks since we broke up, so I had to give her a call.
“This was around November. I was actually begging Kim, saying we should release a statement that we’ve already gone our separate ways, that we separated on good terms at walang sigawan.
“Of course, there were tears, pero walang masamang tinapay. I said, ‘Can we just release it? A lot of people are getting dragged into this, including my mom and grandmother.’
“I begged her that both of us could release a statement, but she said not yet because they’re doing the press launch of her series. I said, ‘But this isn’t work-related. It’s personal.’ That’s the truth to it.
“I don’t want any conflict between us. My intention now is to tell the truth. that I called to beg her, but she said, ‘in time.’
“I guess by that she meant late December, before Christmas. I don’t know why they decided for us to do it then. I was just glad that we both got to release statements. I guess some people, whoever they are, want us fighting.
“We haven’t spoken after I begged for the statement, but we are on good terms. From the time we separated, we were OK.”
XIAN LIM CONFIRMS RELATIONSHIP WITH IRIS LEE
May 2, 2024, kinumpirma ni Xian na may namamagitan nga sa kanila ni Iris sa eksklusibong panayam niya sa Esquire Philippines.
Inusisa ng online magazine si Xian kung may katotohanan ang mga naglalabasang espekulasyong may relasyon sila ni Iris.
Diretsong sagot niya: “Yes, I’m seeing Iris.
“Just to clear everything, to clear all the speculations.
“We are seeing each other and we are very happy.”
Sabi ni Xian sa Esquire Philippines, nagdesisyon siyang magsalita halos limang buwan matapos ang kontrobersiyal na announcement ng breakup nila ni Kim.
Ito raw ay upang bigyang-linaw ang mga haka-haka sa dahilan ng paghihiwalay nila ng dating nobya na wala naman daw katotohanan.
