When asked if she felt ashamed to only “live off women’s money”, Fumi frankly said: “I don’t feel ashamed or guilty.”
When asked if she felt ashamed to only “live off women’s money”, Fumi frankly said: “I don’t feel ashamed or guilty.”
When asked if it was embarrassing to only “live off women’s money”, Fumi frankly said: “I don’t feel ashamed or guilty.”
“Being adopted” is definitely not an easy thing. If you want your other half to wholeheartedly spend money on you, you must “coax” them to be happy. If you think that “getting adopted” depends only on appearance, you are sorely mistaken.
Fumi, 34 years old, on the outside, you probably just think he is a man doing a normal office job. However, since graduating from university, he has always lived at the house of 7 girlfriends, without having to pay any living expenses, including electricity, water, rent…
The Japanese program “Love Market” specializes in researching issues of disagreement between the sexes. In an episode of the discussion program about “Being Raised”, the program crew invited an interview with a graduate of the prestigious Waseda University – Fumi.
The first time they saw Fumi, the whole crew was surprised that he could be “raised” with such an extremely ordinary appearance. Fumi looks completely different from another “Parented Saint”, Ikoma Takuya – a guy with outstanding appearance, providing a special type of “professional lover” service.
Ikoma Takuya, the guy who loved 15 people at the same time.
Fumi has been living at his girlfriend’s house since he graduated from college. Not only does he not have to pay rent, electricity or water, but even clothes, watches, cell phones and personal items don’t have to be paid. Bought for my girlfriend.
Fumi said that the most important thing for a “covered” practitioner is to be able to “cook rice”.
“If you want to keep a woman’s heart, you must first keep her stomach.” Fumi’s motto is: “For adopted sons, the important thing is not just knowing how to eat, but knowing how to cook.” In addition, he also summarizes the 8 main points that he possesses to be able to conquer the hearts of many women.
1. Cook three meals for your girlfriend
Fumi delves deeply into cooking skills. Regardless of traditional Japanese dishes or Western dishes, he can cook them all. He also researched low-calorie menus to help his girlfriend maintain her figure.
2. Get up early to prepare breakfast
Every morning at 7 o’clock, Fumi wakes up early to prepare breakfast and a lunch box for her girlfriend to take to work before she wakes up. He explained that this contained a lot of his thoughts, because his girlfriend needed to put on makeup and take a bath every day. If she wakes up and sees a rich breakfast on the table, she will definitely feel happier. This is also something other boys deserve to learn.
3. Pick up your girlfriend every day
After his girlfriend finished breakfast, Fumi helped carry her bags and took her to the subway station, not forgetting to pick her up after work, making her feel safe and disciplined.
4. Do housework
Because “the female homeowner goes out to make money”, “the man must take care of everything at home”. Accordingly, Fumi needs to take on all housework such as washing clothes, cleaning the bathroom, sweeping rooms… Fumi said he needs to understand his girlfriend’s daily habits and lifestyle to then integrate into her life. her life.
After completing the housework, it was Fumi’s time to rest with items such as game consoles and TVs given to her by her girlfriend.
5. Absolutely do not proactively let your girlfriend spend money
Even though she is often called a “Protected Saint”, living on her girlfriend’s financial resources and protection, and also making money from them, Fumi will never let her girlfriend spend money indiscriminately. , once refused his girlfriend who gave him a game console 20 times.
Every afternoon, Fumi goes to the beach to jog or play some sport that he likes. He also mentioned that as a professional “Foster”, body management is a condition that must be followed.
6. Create a small surprise for your girlfriend
Although Fumi does not have a full-time job, she often earns pocket money by playing games or writing; Buy ice cream or give your girlfriend small surprises, your girlfriend will also feel very satisfied and happy.
7. Be a good listener
After his girlfriend came home from work, in addition to helping her bathe, Fumi also listened to his girlfriend complain about trivial things at work while they were having dinner and shared her worries, from then on. relieve the opponent’s psychology and pressure.
8. Massage and lull your girlfriend to sleep
In the evening, Fumi will massage his girlfriend to help her relieve the fatigue of the day. At the same time, he will also hug his girlfriend and slowly coax her to sleep.
In the past 13 years, Fumi has not worked a single day of official work and left his girlfriends to spend more than 15 million yen (more than 1 million USD) for his living expenses.
Some netizens believe that instead of saying “raised”, it should be said that Fumi works as a full-time housekeeper, masseuse and psychologist for his girlfriends. Furthermore, what Fumi does at home is not simple or arbitrary, just having to wake up at 7 o’clock every day to prepare breakfast is not easy either.
When asked if it was embarrassing to only “live off women’s money”, Fumi frankly said: “I don’t feel ashamed or guilty.” Not only that, he also had several ex-girlfriends propose to him many times.
Fumi said on the show that he thinks he is not really “raised”, but rather a housewife. I don’t think it’s degrading for men to not go out and work to make money, and at the same time, I don’t think I was born to work. In addition, Fumi even wrote a book about her “fostered” career for more than a decade titled “Theory of escaping happiness in 13 years of living” (rough translation).
Even though many netizens recognize her value, Fumi still suffers from many prejudices and doubts. Faced with these things, he also has his own opinion: “In this world there are many people, each of whom cannot understand each other. Of course, both sides can have chemistry, but they can’t be 100% compatible and you can’t expect others to understand you absolutely.”
Fumi likes to communicate but doesn’t like being in crowded places. Since childhood, Fumi was uncomfortable with the hard-working lifestyle outside, he always felt like he was not suitable for work.
He doesn’t care what other people think, and he doesn’t get angry or sad when he’s hated. He wants to cherish his girlfriend, family, and friends rather than waste time on people he has no connection with in his entire life.
“For the rest of my life, I just want to live with the right person for me,” Fumi said.
Three “shocking” frugal girls: Buy 3 houses in 7 years, have billions in 4 years
Spend sparingly, at 34 years old bought 3 houses
In 2019, the story of Saki Tamogami (living in Japan) living frugally to buy 3 houses made everyone stir. Since the age of 18, this girl has set a goal of having 3 houses by the age of 34.
At the age of 27, she bought her first house in Saitama Prefecture for 10 million yen, the second house was bought for 18 million yen, and in 2019, she bought the third house for 37 million yen at the age of 34. That means the goal this Japanese girl set has been accomplished.
The girl completed her goal of having 3 houses thanks to living frugally.
Saki said she spends no more than 200 yen/day to buy food. Every day, compared to everyone else, her meals cost the least amount of money possible.
Accordingly, for breakfast, you will only eat a small sandwich for 77 yen, for lunch you will bring white rice and salmon from home for 154 yen, and for dinner you will eat vegetarian udon noodles with vegetables for 3 yen. Every day, Saki travels by public transportation and rarely hangs out with friends.
At the age of 40, she had income from renting the real estate she owned, opening a cat cafe, and no longer had to work.
Save billions in 4 years
In Korea, the story of girl Ji-hyeon Kwak also made this country’s netizens stir. In just 4 years, she saved 100 million won.
After 4 years, Ji-hyeon Kwak has enough money to buy a small apartment.
Ji-hyeon Kwak was born into a difficult family, so she wanted to find her own path, which was also her motivation to save money.
To do this, she has to spend extremely sparingly. Since the age of 19, Ji-hyeon Kwak has earned 2 million won/month by working. During this time, she tried to save money to soon have her own house. Every month she only spends 8,400 won even though her income is not small.
According to Ji-hyeon Kwak, she took advantage of stores’ discounts and incentives. This way, she can buy products for herself for free or only pay a very small amount. The young girl went on television to share how she can receive discounts, receive bonus points… When she wins a bottle of water, she will go online and sell it to collect cash.
When it comes to eating, she takes advantage of programs on apps so she can eat for free or buy cheap food. She saves money on transportation by walking 2 hours a day, drinking homemade tea or drinking free tap water.
Currently, with 4 million won, Ji-hyeon Kwak can completely buy a small apartment. Her spending secrets have been shared on television and Youtube channels and have attracted many people’s attention.
Picking up discarded items on the street instead of buying them saves money
Living in the bustling metropolis of New York is expensive, but Kate Hashimoto only spends 200 USD/month. Appearing on TCL TV channel, she shared her savings secrets.
Kate once said: “If I have to spend money, I try to avoid it and spend as little as possible. What surprises everyone is that she doesn’t buy things but picks them up from the trash. Instead of spending money on a bed, she sleeps.” on yoga mats placed on the dining table.
Kate Hashimoto has a frugal lifestyle that “shocks” many people.
Kate’s sofa was made from reused cushions and bed frames, and the dining table was created by stacking many magazines. The furniture in the house was picked up from discarded items, helping Kate save several thousand dollars.
Kate washes clothes right in the bathroom to save money. She didn’t buy toilet paper and instead used water after every time she went to the bathroom. She didn’t even buy clothes for many years.
But that’s not all, Kate also “shocks” her by scavenging through the trash outside the restaurant looking for food or finding items from the supermarket, such as organic products or packaged foods. can eat.
She is not afraid to dig through the trash to find usable items or food discarded by the supermarket.
This girl also doesn’t go out to eat at restaurants unless her friends pay for it. Kate diligently participates in online surveys to win gift cards. Thanks to participating in promotional events, she brought home many tubes of toothpaste, deodorant, other toiletries… She did not spend money on hairdressing but instead cut her hair at home.
