The 35-year-old told his friend he hadn't 'f****d her yet' even though she'd 'do anything' for him.
Jane Lewis, 40, from New Jersey, checked her husband's phone with his permission last month and found old text messages
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He went on to describe how he just had to 'make out with her a little bit' to keep Jane happy.
The sprinkler technician sent the vile messages six years ago but the couple went on to marry in 2021, however, Jane only found the messages last month.
Jane's husband described how he'd met 'this ugly chick' at the grocery store where she worked at the time, saying she would 'do f*****g literally anything' for him.
He told his friend he moved in with Jane but said he didn't find her attractive like the 'hot girls he sees all the time'.
Jack then went on to say that he believed he could get any girl but most 'hot chicks are stuck up anyway'.
Jane said she immediately confronted her husband, who was mortified and made the excuse that he was trying to make himself feel better at the time.
The mother-of-three said her confidence has been shattered and that if she had found the messages earlier, she would have left him.
Jack, whose real name is withheld, described how he'd met 'this ugly chick' at the supermarket where Jane worked at the time and said she'll 'do f*****g literally anything' for him
Jane says her confidence has been shattered and that when her husband calls her 'beautiful' she no longer believes it
Jane said: 'I went through his messages to see who he was talking to. Him and his friend don't text that often so I only had to scroll back about ten messages.
'I got to one from when we first got together saying he was using me for my money, how ugly I am and he won't have sex with me.
'It was pretty bad. It was very shocking. I was devastated.
'He was mortified, he was pretty upset and he apologised. He said he felt bad about himself [at the time] and he wanted to make himself feel better.
'I don't know how I'll move on from it. I'm hurt by it. If he asks me a question, I say: "I'm not stupid, I'm just ugly".
'He calls me beautiful but I don't believe him. It's knocked my confidence.
'I have ugly duckling syndrome. I'll always think I'm really bad looking.
'I would have left him if I found the messages in the beginning. I have to try to move past it, it's seven years later and we're married.
'If it was someone else who found the messages, I would tell them to leave because if I knew then what I know now I wouldn't be with him. I wouldn't have stuck through so many things.'
