When it comes to women getting off, sex experts say the key (at least physically) is to stimulate the clitoris, which is the anatomical equivalent of the penis in terms of structure and sensitivity. But because much of the clitoris is buried in tissue, muscle and fat, it can be more complicated and time-consuming to stimulate and bring to orgasm. That anatomical difference is one reason why the term “orgasm gap” was coined — because men’s bodies may make it a bit easier for them to come. But because of outdated societal norms that depict sex as a vehicle for men to get off, they’ve also traditionally had the luxury of expecting to climax, even if it was at the expense of a woman’s pleasure.
69
“An oldie but always goodie, 69 is a position that couples find to be super-pleasurable, but somehow don’t do enough,” says Nelson. “Woman-on-top 69 gives freedom to move your clitoris and position yourself for optimum orgasm. It’s always great for both partners to be experiencing pleasure at the same time.”
Leg-glider
This is a fantastic position for the partner to hit both the G-spot and stimulate the clitoris simultaneously,” says Nelson.
Side-to-side
Fusion
Eve’s ecstasy