On their first date, not wanting to have to pay for all the “love fees”, the boy asked the girl to pay for gas, causing controversy on social networks.
Dating through matchmakers is no longer strange in China. However, these dates often have a low success rate, and are mostly just regular meetings and conversations to learn about the other person’s personality. There are also many “half laughing, half crying” stories.
The recent story of the couple in Guangdong (China) caused many people to talk. Through matchmaking, a man and a woman meet each other. The two of them arranged to go for a drive. Perhaps because the distance was a bit long, the boy’s car ran out of gas. He pulled into a gas station to fill up.
The boy was upset because the girl refused to pay for gas.
Because he didn’t want to pay, he asked the girl accompanying him to pay for it. The girl felt unhappy about this suggestion. She believes that since he is a man, he must bear all the expenses for the date. However, the guy was still determined, thinking that what the girl did was unfair. Finally, she gave in and gave him 20 yuan (about 66 thousand dong), according to information from Sohu website.
The guy felt that this woman was too stingy even though he had previously spent money on food and drinks. He thinks that such a person is not worth going further. To him, 20 yuan was nothing compared to the amount of gas he planned to spend and it felt like an insult. Furthermore, the girl’s annoying and annoying way of talking caused the boy to receive the shock of his life during the matchmaking date. He is even more averse to such matchmaking.
Exasperated, he told the girl directly: “No wonder you don’t have a lover yet. This is a matchmaking appointment and the man cannot be fully responsible. Women also have to pay for their appointment.” Only when we become lovers will I take care of all the money for the date.”
After that, he also shared the story on social networks and received many mixed comments. Most people think that the son is a bit petty because he fills up his car with gas, so he can pay for the next trip. Furthermore, if he is gallant, he may make the other girl feel touched.
A few commented that the girl was too stingy. She offered 20 yuan and was insulting the guy. As a matchmaking appointment, she also needs to proactively pay the guy. That’s the most fair way to do it.
“In the past, most people thought that love affairs had to be handled by men. But in modern life, girls also need to think differently. They cannot force men to pay all dating expenses even though they are lovers. Sharing economic matters, money for food and drinks is a good thing to do. Thus, both sides have respect for each other,” one person commented.
