Sleep separately when they reach 50 years old
Most Vietnamese couples sleep in separate beds when they reach the age of 50. The simplest reason given by parents is to sleep well. At this age, due to hormonal changes, people often have difficulty sleeping, sometimes just a turn of the back, a touch or a snore can keep the other person up all night. According to health experts, sleeping separately brings more benefits than sharing a bed and pillow.
Benefits of couples sleeping separately from the age of 50:
+ Reduce the risk of infectious diseases
In some middle-aged couples and older, one of the two is susceptible to infectious diseases such as tuberculosis and skin infections. In order not to put pressure on the other, sleeping in separate beds at this time will help reduce cross-infection from one person to another.
+ Ensure quality of sleep
The older you get, the lower the quality of sleep. Especially for women in pre-menopause and menopause, it is very difficult to fall asleep and sleep deeply. Therefore, if the other person snores or grinds their teeth, it will really affect the quality of sleep of the other person. Therefore, in order to avoid insomnia, it is best to sleep in separate beds so as not to affect each other. This can improve health, be good for the brain, and prolong life.
+ Beneficial for maintaining relationships
Although they have entered middle age and have been together for many years, not every couple will find a common voice or live together in harmony. Having spent half a lifetime together with enough experiences and ups and downs, when they are old, both should sleep in separate beds to keep each other's private space without losing their feelings. Many people think that sleeping together is intimate, but that is not true, it can give rise to some conflicts, which is not good for maintaining the relationship between the two sides. It is best to separate so that feelings are not damaged by unnecessary conflicts.
What do experts say, should middle-aged people sleep together or separately?
According to experts, if there is no infectious disease or special reason, couples should share a bed. This is not only good for physical health but also beneficial for the spirit of middle-aged and elderly couples. Specifically:
+ Satisfy instinctive needs
At the age of fifty, when the nature of the bed function has decreased but the need still remains. Sleeping together can help both of you satisfy each other. Moreover, at this age, when
the children have grown up, the burdens in life are less, it is also the time for couples to enjoy a happy time. Therefore, both of you are more likely to 'sublimate'.
+ Prevent accidents while sleeping
Starting in middle age, the health of the heart and blood vessels in the brain is much worse than before. At this time, if there are some situations at night such as headaches, strokes without someone around, it is very dangerous. Therefore, people with a history of this disease should have someone to sleep with.
It can be seen that whether a couple sleeps together or not depends on the feelings and circumstances of each family as well as the physical condition of each person. If they have an infectious disease, they should not, but if both are healthy, they can sleep together or sleep separately depending on each person's preference.
